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Showing posts with label Joy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Joy. Show all posts

Saturday, August 8, 2015

Because I'm HAPPY!!!

With all the bad news that's reported each day, I thought I'd write about something HAPPY. I don't have anything specific to write about except the fact that I am incredibly happy.

What I have come to realize in my happiness is that happiness is "relative". For example, some folks would need a WHOLE LOT more than what I have right now in order to be happy.

I have very little money in the bank...hanging on til I get paid again. Although more money (and no financial struggles) would make life much easier...I have learned to have MUCH joy even in times like this (of VERY LITTLE MONEY). It will get better though...this I believe. This I know.

My internet is currently off at home (again) until I can pay the bill (so I have once again found myself at Starbucks).
My little Kia is almost 9 yrs old (but I'm THANKFUL that it still works).
I live in a very small 2 bedroom apartment (but I'm THANKFUL for a roof over my head...to call my own)
And I've been working crazy long hours at work...without getting paid overtime, because I am a salaried employee (yet I am THANKFUL to be working).

Even without all the monetary stuff, I am BLESSED by all the things I have which money can not buy.

I have three amazingly incredible children who are intelligent, well-mannered, healthy, and simply good people.
I have great friends, great family, and "Joe" who absolutely LOVES me.
I have my health, and can take care of myself physically. My mind works, and so do ALL of my senses.

If I could bottle up how I feel, the bottle would glow like the sunniest day, 'cause that's how I feel inside...like SUNSHINE. If a picture could describe how I feel, it would be the one I've posted here (which by the way, I took myself). Can you see how peaceful it is. That's where I am right now...at peace...content.

I am happier that I have been in a very LONG time...maybe happier than I've EVER been...and I love it. I feel like I am FINALLY becoming who I was meant to be...FINALLY.

I pray that this feeling lasts FOREVER and that I am able to spread my joy to others, 'cause a feeling like this is just too good to keep to one's self.

Now it's YOUR turn: Let the DIALOGUE begin: When was the last time you were happy...TRULY happy?


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Til next time...








Friday, August 1, 2014

This JOY that I have...

With all of the sadness, anger, and negativity in the world I am learning more and more how to TUNE IT OUT and focus on what matters...JOY, LOVE, PEACE...and ultimately life eternal with Christ. You see, when I think on those things, then the vitriol and nastiness that the world may try to throw my way simply bounces right off. I just don't want any part of it. It's as though I wake up every morning now and spray "negativity repellent" all over myself. To the point where it either doesn't come near me, and/or if it does, it bounces right off...NEVER making contact.

Life is so much sweeter when lived that way. Interestingly enough, it's not the way that "the world" operates. Thankfully...I am not of this world. I am simply a traveler sojourning through. So I don't have to conform to the negative ways of this world because they are not the ways of my Lord Jesus. HIS ways are MY ways, and for that I am forever grateful.

The world wants us to tackle anger with anger...bitterness with bitterness...negativity with negativity.

Nope. Not gonna do it...because Jesus wouldn't do it that way.

Light outshines Darkness...ALWAYS.
Love outshines Hate...ALWAYS.
Silence outshines Angry Speech...ALWAYS.
Forgiveness outshines Unforgiveness...ALWAYS.
The Word of God outshines the ways of this world...ALWAYS.
Faith outshines hopelessness...ALWAYS.
Understanding outshines the need to prove a point...ALWAYS.


There...I've given you seven. Anyone who knows me knows that I do things in sevens.

So here's the deal...when I wake up each morning, I CHOOSE JOY. I really do. With a dwindling bank account and a job situation that's up in the air...life issues that need to be handled, and other things that change like the wind...I STILL choose JOY. I mean really, what benefit is there in harboring anger, resentment, bitterness, and whatever else people hold against each other? This life is so short compared to eternity. Why live it angrily? Again, I say...I CHOOSE JOY.

I still pray for people who've hurt me. Yes, EVERYDAY I pray for them...asking God to BLESS them. Why? (You already know what I'm gonna say) Because JESUS said so! That's why. No, it's not easy in my flesh. But by the power of the Holy Spirit that dwells within me, it's totally doable. And That's what I choose to operate from...the power of the Holy Spirit and not my flesh. Too many people (yes, even Christians) are operating out of their flesh. How do I know...because they are so quick to anger, and short on forgiveness. Sorry folks, but according to the Bible that I read, that's completely opposite of how it's supposed to be. Thankfully, in one's very next breath the script can be flipped. But a person has to WANT to flip it. Some people CHOOSE ANGER. Sad, but true. For some strange reason, it makes them feel better...makes them feel like their "winning". Ok. Anywhoo...as I said before and will say once more...I CHOOSE JOY, and so does Yolanda Adams in one of my favorite songs where she says, "This joy that I have, the world didn't give this joy to me..." Amen Yolanda, amen!

Let the DIALOGUE begin: When you wake up tomorrow morning, what will YOU choose? Heck, why wait til then...tomorrow morning isn't promised to any of us. You may only have THIS moment. So...right NOW...what do YOU choose?


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Til next time...