So I have this little blog. I've had it since 2009. It has its own page on Facebook with 169 "Likes." I'd love for it to reach 200 by the end of the year!
I know that there have been some patchy areas where I've gone entire months without posting. In those cases, it was because I simply got discouraged and felt, what was the point in writing if no one was reading and DIALOGUING. As I have said from the beginning, this is not to be a place where I just spew and vent and everyone else listens.
No.
This was meant to be a place where grand discussions would take place. Like a Venus and Serena Williams tennis match. There was supposed to be a steady flow of comments going back and forth. That was the plan. Unfortunately, folks haven't hopped on board as I had hoped.
Nevertheless, I have continued posting.
I am thankful for the five "supporters" (I was pretty liberal with that number), who comment fairly regularly. I used the word "supporters" because I hate the word "followers." As for the other 164 who have "Liked" the page...I just don't know what it's gonna take to capture their interest enough for them to actually engage.
One thing I've done over the years is compare myself to other "bloggers." I have two friends with blogs of their own, and their writing style (although very similar to each other) is VERY different from mine.
They write with words and phrases that make you hear waves crashing and see butterflies passing by. Very "new-agey" kinda stuff. Although they write beautifully and in a thought-provoking manner, that's just not my style.
I mean, I hope to provoke thought, but I simply don't write in flowery pose, nor should I have to because where is the diversity in that?
So I've put out the call a number of times for folks to simply "Like" The Dialogue Den's page on Facebook. Heck...they don't even have to READ the posts if they don't want to. I'm simply asking for a "Like", which to most means very little, yet to me would mean so very much.
As morbid as this next statement may be, I've often thought that my writing won't be TRULY recognized until after I've gone home to be with the Lord. Then folks will decide to delve in and see what I was all about. At that point it'll be too late.
There's the song that says, "Give me my flowers while I yet live." That's how I feel about my blog. Don't wait for me to DIE and then "Like" it. "Like" it while I still have breath in my body so that I can know that this isn't all in vain.
It's such a small, effortless gesture. Yet it would mean the world to me. It would be as though folks are cheering me along in the background saying, "Yes! You ARE a writer, and the world needs your words!"
I dunno. Maybe asking for support and encouragement is more that folks are able to give. My heart says otherwise though. Although I am discouraged, I will not QUIT.
Anywhoo...Let the DIALOGUE begin: Is there something that you have asked folks to support you in and they simply haven't? If so, why do you think that is?
Talk to me PLEASE!!!
Til next time...
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this comment section is not playing nice today so let's see if I remember what I wrote. You have a gift to write and it will be utilized for His Glory. If it's not already on your prayer list please add it. I know this is truly a desire of your heart but seek him for what to write and where you should write. He has everything already worked out, I know he does. I do encourage to continue on, but knowing his is a God given gift I'll just say seek his guidance.
ReplyDeleteI do understand the frustration. I feel the same way with my photo page. I can only ask and send requests to like he page so many times before it's discouraging. but You and I can't be wrapped up in numbers of likes on a page. there's a greater purpose to all that we do! Stay focused!
Awww Kyra! Thank you so much for those much needed word of encouragement. I know without a doubt that YOU understand. God has revealed a few things to me with regard with my writing, three of those are in the form of BOOKS that He wants me to write, and one is with regard to my sweet blog, The Dialogue Den (He's told me to KEEP blogging)...plus another blog that I'll be giving attention to next year. So I do know that this IS truly my gift, and even though my blog hasn't taken off nearly as well as those of my two other friends, I can not get stuck in the "trap of comparison." He gave Me MY style, and He gave them THEIRS. You keep snapping those amazing pics (I posted "Brownie" on my wall at work so that everyone can enjoy your talent), and I will keep writing, simply because I know it's what I have been purposed to do.
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